Batch mates re-unite…☺

What a wonderful way to bring in December 2010. Work brought a dear friend to Mumbai and his chance meeting with another batch mate of ours at an art event he was attending had us all congregate at my place over a lunch of biryani the next day and lots of catching up…that’s not what this blog is about. This post is about something remarkable I felt over the meeting I had with my lovely friends. 

All of us have at some point in our lives have used this term-‘live your dream’ or ‘ I want to live my dream’ and what is beautifully inspiring about both these friends of mine and something I admire is how they are quietly going about doing just that. For all those of you who do not know me but follow my blog-we are all alumni of the National Institute of Design (NID) which is internationally acclaimed as one of the foremost multi-disciplinary institutions in the field of design education and research in the country. The Business Week, USA has listed NID as one of the top 25 European & Asian programmes in the world.

What was wonderful for me to see was how though all of us had studied Design, we have been able to find ways to apply our learnings to our lives and make it an integral part of who we are and what we are involved with. One friend has gone from being a hard core graphic designer to becoming an artist who creates magical installations and uses design to leave the audience in awe and rapture and now travels the world wetting everyone’s taste buds with what he is able to conjure time and again in ways no one else can. The other who has through her work at NID showcased an amazing sense of thought and aesthetics is today on the cusp of acting in one of her biggest Bollywood blockbusters as a leading actress in main stream cinema and also continues something that has always been her first love-sculpture. She has been acting for a while down south in cinema there and has with her movies carved a niche for herself and become a name to reckon with. 

So, why are they doing it? It is because they absolutely love what they do and are completely committed to the moment in ways that are very revitalizing.  

Do we all know the paths our lives take? Do we fear the repercussions of the decisions we make? Are we scared to do what we truly want to or wish to do? One should take inspiration from these two. The thing is how are we going to answer these questions if we are not true to what we really wish to do or desire doing. I commend my friends for making the choices they have, I admire them for being able to stand up for what they believe in and go ahead and follow their dreams.

What was so lovely was that as we sat and chatted in the drawing room…it felt just like old times like we were teleported back to the hostel rooms or the corridors of NID.

The truth is old friends especially those from college are like fine wine…they may not stay in touch for days on end, their may be huge passages of time between meetings BUT when they get together it is just like old times…what a wonderful afternoon it was….one that I shall cherish for a long time to come. 

Thank you my dear ones for coming into my space and filling it with an energy that only you could have brought with you. I am deeply indebted to you for that wonderful afternoon we shared.

Looking out through my window

Call it me growing old, call it me slowing down but I must say that I absolutely love spending time at home…J There is a joy I experience at home that is very special. My mind is always thinking, always working and so I said to myself... let me write my mind out and express myself via my blog today which is why here I am writing away. It is an overcast Sunday and its been raining this morning which is strange for mid November. I am seated at my chaise lounge in the drawing room and looking out into the garden and the pool. It seems like the ideal day to step out for most but for me it isn't.

The thing is most people my age enjoy stepping out, meeting up, partying, hanging out…but me, I love being home. I sometimes find myself thinking …hmm…maybe I am a tad weird I should be out living it up-I am in Mumbai!!! I have always fought fiercely to see that I create for a level of consistency in my life. Everything I do or endeavor needs to be with thought and if I enjoy it and want more of it, then I need to pave the way to see I create that avenue that allows me to consistently have that in life without getting too greedy. My joys are simple be it my gymming, going to movies, riding my bikes, traveling and chilling at home.

I was brought up with the value system that had you learn to nurture the ‘sense of belonging’ when I was young. My Mom infused in me how important it was to not always have to be 'entertained' but sometimes be able to also enjoy just ‘being’. Mom has been quite an amazing woman who really keeps the entire family together with always finding ways to see we bond, we communicate, we nurture and we selflessly love and I think in many ways I have tried to replicate her teachings in my life and take wisdom from the lady she is. She taught me the importance of home, family, staying united, always being accountable and staying humble. Today at 32, I find immense joy in time to myself and being able to enjoy the solitude of my home and its surroundings. I do not need to be on a mobile phone or have the television or music on…I can just sit and enjoy the space and I believe that is a huge achievement when I look around. I can have a very hectic social life-I choose not to. I like to still bring out the child in me who still can enjoy the whole joy of looking forward to stepping out and doing something special versus going out everyday and hitting the social scene as people would expect those living in Mumbai to do. Being a Model, you are constantly invited to some of the most happening parties in the city be it private bashes, launches, premieres or events...I would choose chilling at home anyday over doing this on a daily basis. 

What people don't realize is that it takes a lot to live on your own away from home in a fast paced metropolitan like Mumbai where you are constantly having to fend for yourself…this is all not easy when you have been at it year after year. Sure, it would be so easy to step out at the drop of a hat just so that you do not have to be dealing with the four walls of your home and being on your own but then over a period of time we all know what that leads to us as individuals becoming and that is definitely not someone i can or have ever been able to identify with. 

It demands a huge level of commitment and accountability to one’s self if you want to live well but then again the term 'living well' would probably have each person out there define it differently. For me 'living well' was very simply seeing i stayed 'happy' and when at home I was so overjoyed that I did not miss my family in Baroda or pine to be with them. That is what I have attempted to create in this place I have made home since July 2006 when I moved in. The energy in my home is self created, this is my world and it is a space i treasure and cherish. I love this place to bits. 

One more year has gone by here and 2010 nears to an end and 2011 shall pave way for new challenges, new dreams and new chapters to be written that I cannot wait to experience.

I look forward to 2011 as I stare out of my drawing room window. I love the life I lead in this city, I love my home and I look forward to each day that comes my way and has me experience a new facet of life that has me revisit the wisdom I believe I had honed. I have grown immensely as a person this year and what has allowed for that growth and learning has been my being a better listener and a better observer of all that surrounds me daily. My close knit family and the transparent communication we share though we are miles apart is such a catalyst in the person I mature into. It is lovely to be happier with every day that you wake up to and it is beautiful to smile as I look ahead to 2011…

A wonderful evening with 'Guzaarish'

Had a wonderful evening at the movies with loved ones. We went to see Sanjay Leela Bhansali’s new film ‘Guzaarish’ and I must say it lived up to the expectations I had created in my mind in the run up to its release. The past has seen me enjoy Dhoom 2 and Jodha Akbar both Hrithik-Aishwarya starrers and so I was quite excited about seeing  them pair up once again to set the screen on fire in the energy I believe they generate together.

Guzaarish has been made with a lot of heart and passion and you can see the sensitivity portrayed beautifully and eloquently by Hrithik who carries out the role of a paraplegic so wonderfully in the movie. I was in absolute awe of Hrithik and his acting and realized how crucial it is to find that perfect match of a great Director who knows how to nurture and accentuate the potential of his actor so beautifully shown in this film.  Hrithik, you have really come a long way and thank you for such a wonderful acting performance that had me believe what you wanted to convey. The dance with the ball was something only you could have done with the grace and elegance that had me applaud the way you carry yourself on screen.

What was wonderful about the film was that though the film touched upon the life of a paraplegic and the very sensitive issue of Euthanasia, it doesn't take any stand which is something you would expect of the cinema one is used to. Instead, it is about ‘Ethan’ and his life and about the strength of a paraplegic, who lived a full life for 14 years without being depressed. The film moves you and does have you reflect on your approach to the way you look at life and our everyday experiences. There is a sense of gratitude you walk away with and as you watch moments in the film when you see Hrithik pine to do some of the simplest things he can’t anymore, you learn to cherish what you have.

Hrithik for me really encapsulated perfection in this film and I do not believe there is anyone in Bollywood who could have done this role better. Aishwarya was beauty personified in the wonderful way she carried herself and Sabyasachi who has designed her clothes for this film made her look the gorgeous woman she is.

Sanjay Leela Bhansali, you for me were the magician in this film. Every shot of your film, every angle, the lighting you chose, the composition, the back-drop…all so beautifully thought out and executed. 

Well done Sir, thank you for taking me on a wonderful visual journey and re-affirming that there is beauty in Indian cinema and magicians like you…still exist.

India Pakistan Hockey Jai Ho…

I sat and watched absolutely mystified as India and Pakistan played out a crucial Men's Hockey match in the Asian Games today. Whenever these two Nations take to the ground for any sporting encounter, that game guarantees a match filled with passion, drive, determination and the fire to WIN. This tie was crucial for India as a win would have them top the Pool Table they are in and also guarantee a Semi-Final place in the Asian Games 2010.

It is interesting how we as a Country have still not yet truly embraced our pride in ‘all’ the sports we truly excel at and games like Cricket continue to shadow our pride and glory that some of the other sports too bring to us but go unnoticed. It was providence that I happened to have the television on today and was watching the Asian Games, which allowed me to catch this classic Hockey encounter, as it was played out live. There was no advertising of any kind in the run up to this match talking about this wonderful tie that was going to be played out today…why I wonder since this tie is what dreams are made of for any sportsman and any India-Pakistan match. Such a game is always watched with a lot of enthusiasm especially if it is a sport like Hockey…

I do believe it is high time that India recognizes and accepts that we are great at sports other than Cricket too-hockey with the wonderful Indian Team, Boxing, Tennis, Chess, Rowing (as showcased in this Asian Games), Shooting, Weightlifting etc. We are slowly but surely becoming a Nation that is churning out great sporting glory and this can only take full shape when our Government is recognizing of the talent that flourishes in our own backyards and is able to shed the political bureaucracy and money swindling ways we seem to be making more of a name for be it the IPL or the Commonwealth Games.

Isn’t it surprising that in a nation of billions we are not able to have 11 Football players who can represent us in the FIFA World Cup? I believe it is possible…..the question however is-Do we want this to happen and become a reality? Do we only want to be recognized for our political power games we play out or do we want to also be remembered for the pride we brought our nation in the sports we played and the friendships we forged on the field? Shouldn't we be taking from the wonderful Indo-Pak 'peace pair' of Rohan Bopanna and Aisam-ul-haq-Qureshi friendship in Tennis formed that has made both India and Pakistan very proud. 

India won their Hockey match today against Pakistan 3-2 and are through to the Semi Finals of the 2010 Asian Games. The Indian Hockey Team once again showcased their serious intent to us as a Country that they play to win, they play for the pride of our Nation….are we nurturing them in the support we show???

Hurrah Aung San Suu Kyi Hurrah!

Call it faith, call it belief, call it determination. For me, it sums up an inspiring story of someone who stood by what she believed in and has been a lamp of hope for not just her Country but people around the world. That is what Aung San Suu Kyi  and her life means to the people of Myanmar, Burma and to a large part of the world who have followed her journey.

Aung San Suu Kyi is a Burmese opposition politician and a former General Secretary of the National League for Democracy. In the 1990 general election, Aung San Suu Kyi's National League for Democracy party won 59% of the national votes and 80% (392 of 492) of the seats in Parliament. She had, however, already been detained under house arrest before the elections. She remained under house arrest for almost 15 of the 21 years from 1990 until her release on the 13^th of November 2010.

Aung San Suu Kyi was the recipient of the Rafto Prize and the Sakharov Prize for Freedom of Thought in 1990 and the Nobel Peace Prize in 1991. In 1992 she was awarded the Jawaharlal Nehru Award for International Understanding by the Government of India.

Aung San Suu Kyi returned to Burma in 1988 to take care of her ailing mother. By coincidence, in the same year, the long-time leader of the Socialist ruling party, General Ne Win, stepped down, leading to mass demonstrations for democracy on 8 August 1988 (8-8-88, a day seen as auspicious), which were violently suppressed in what came to be known as the 8888 Uprising. On 26 August 1988, she addressed half a million people at a mass rally in front of the Shwedagon Pagoda in the capital, calling for a democratic government. However in September, a new military junta took power. Later the same month, the National League for Democracy (NLD) was formed, with Suu Kyi as general secretary.

Influenced by both Mahatma Gandhi's philosophy of non-violence and by more specifically Buddhist concepts, Aung San Suu Kyi entered politics to work for democratization. She was instrumental in the founding of the National League for Democracy on 27 September 1988, and was put under house arrest on 20 July 1989. She was offered freedom if she left the country, but she refused.

One of her most famous speeches is the "Freedom From Fear" speech, which begins: "It is not power that corrupts but fear. Fear of losing power corrupts those who wield it and fear of the scourge of power corrupts those who are subject to it."

She has also always voiced how she believes fear spurs many world leaders to lose sight of their purpose. "Government leaders are amazing", she once said. "So often it seems they are the last to know what the people want”.

Aung San Suu Kyi, the Burmese opposition leader, has used her first speech since being released from house arrest to challenge the authorities that imprisoned her for much of the past two decades. She said in her speech and I quote, “Democracy is freedom of speech. Please do not give up hope” There is no reason to lose heart”.

I bow to your intellect and your wisdom that has had you lead the life you have Ma’am and I wish you a wonderful journey ahead as you pave way for a new Myanmar and Burma that is built on the plinth of hope, faith and democracy as its true bastion. I am with you in your journey Ms. Suu Kyi as I believe many others are as well. 

Did petty politics come in the way of the Grand Dinner hosted by Prime Minister Dr. Manmohan Singh? Food for thought...

Prime Minister Dr. Manmohan Singh hosted a grand dinner for US President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama at his Race Course Road residence on the 7^th of November 2010. Around 80 ‘eminent’ personalities attended this dinner.

The invitees included several political leaders, business leaders, one sportsman-Vishwanathan Anand and Bollywood celebrities the likes of Javed Akhtar, Shabana Azmi, AR Rahman and Aamir Khan.

This was such a wonderful platform for our Prime Minister to showcase via the guest list an eclectic mix of individuals that have done the Nation proud and allow for the World and the US President to meet with these individuals. It is interesting to note that Amitabh Bachchan and Lata Mangeshkar were not invited to the dinner, even though they enjoy legendary stature in India not to forget Ashutosh Govarikar who directed Lagaan that made it to the Oscars as an entry in the category of the best non-English language film in 2002. How come such a faux pas?

The only sportsman at the dinner was Vishwanathan Anand and whilst I have immense respect for him and his achievements I do believe a couple of more sporting greats could have been invited who have done this Nation proud.

It is at times like this that I believe we showcase what we are ‘proud’ of. The guest list for such an event is testament of people we want someone like the US President and his entourage to meet because these people’s achievements and what they stand for is what makes India the unique Nation it is. It is a list of individuals that is emblematic of who we as a Nation are proud of and who we aren’t….In hindsight, I believe this dinner could have been constructed beautifully with an eclectic guest list that traversed various fields from the Arts, Science, Sports etc. to add vibrancy and pride to a magical night that created not just a platform for the US President to meet these esteemed individuals but to have a room filled with the future of our Nation and the forum to interact with one another and share values, aspirations and vision for India.

I figure that once again petty politics and past grudges coupled with political agendas got in the way of this unique evening and members in power who ‘rule’ this nation succeeded in having their way and poking fun at the expense of India. Sadly, they must live with their own conscience if they do have one and one day life shall come full-circle for them.

Salaam Obama Ji…

I have spent the last 3 days intently watching television and following Barack Obama’s visit to India. Obama has left me both moved and inspired by what I have seen. I know my comments and thoughts may not go down well with many who attempt to break his visit down into minute details and also look at his tenure thus far as the President of the United States. The truth is that as I have watched the television and heard so many panelists break down his every move and question his integrity, his motives and his presidency; I have come to realize something that I believe is such an important catalyst to the future we all collectively look at. We as a country and nation have gotten so used to pointing out the negatives that it is almost hard sometimes to be constructive let alone be positive.

It has been wonderful to watch and follow Obama as he goes about his schedule here in our Country and I was inspired to see a President unlike others I have seen in the past who came off as being extremely humane and sensitive in his ways. It was clear he was here to meet with the people of this Country and not just the politicians. It was also visible that he understood the concerns of those he interacted with as was evident when he addressed the combined houses of Parliament this evening touching upon issues that have had the population wonder what his agendas were.

Here are the positives that I see from this visit. I realize this is not the first US President that has visited us BUT let us attempt to recognize that this President has made an effort no others have in the past in the way he has approached this visit to India clearly indicating our rise as a Nation to reckon with. He made the choice to visit Mumbai first over the Capital Delhi and met with the youth as well as Business leaders and young entrepreneurs. Business deals have been made to the tune of $10 Billion and there has been employment generation as well from the alliances built.There are clear paths that have been paved on this visit by him that I believe shall build wonderful alliances in the time to come. It is visible that the United States of America recognizes the value India brings to the global economy and that partnering with us as a country holds a lot of prospect for both nations in the years to follow.

Obama is a great orator and he shall go down in history for the way he is able to talk and have the world listen. He is a man with a mission that few may believe or feel can be made a reality YET he is choosing to believe he can make a change and so I think a lot of us should learn from that.

It is so easy to question someone’s integrity but when you think about it-isn’t what Obama has spoken about and voiced what we as a nation believe in and feel is what both countries require in an effort to make a positive progress?

What will it take for us as Indians to believe? Have we become so used to negativity around us that we are not able to see the light in the tunnel?

Food for thought…

In the name of religion and politics…

It’s interesting how traffic snarls can sometimes give you amazing insights into life. I found myself stuck in a bad traffic jam and as I listened to my radio in my car I found my eyes looking around. To my right, across the road was this temple and as I looked at worshippers stop to pay respects to the god it made for some interesting revelations. First, I see a guy on a scooter cut through and drive towards the temple on the wrong side of the road causing huge inconveniences only to stop and fold his hands in prayer…made me wonder what the great lord thought of that and what his rational was to be god fearing and yet break the rules. The second was another vehicle that stopped in the middle of the road to pay respects and caused traffic to come to a stand still. On being reprimanded by others on the road, I could clearly see that this gentleman got into extremely abusive language…again…made me wonder whether the gods would appreciate his behavior and conduct and what this man’s principles and value systems truly were.

It is surprising that if we look around us in India, one sees this happening all the time. Politicians make fools of themselves in Parliament with their atrocious behavior yet these very people will talk about value systems and are supposed to be the architects of our country’s future…

As i sat in my car i found myself thinking about this and it made for interesting -let me have you take a moment to actually introspect to see another startling revelation for yourselves. Rewind back on the last couple of years and I would like all of you to think of Political parties in the country and the first thing that comes to your mind when you think of them. I am pretty sure most of your answers shall bend towards them competing and fighting against one another which well they are all most remembered for-its all about WHO WON LAST YEAR/TERM etc…isn’t that sad? Its NEVER about what the party actually stands for….do we even know what the Congress/BJP, Samajwadi Party etc.'s principles are today??? Look at campaigns for any of these parties…all they do is spend money promoting pictures and logos of themselves-name me a party whose banner you saw that actually campaigns and promotes with a cause in mind…I cannot think of one that I last saw where their banner did not have a visual of themselves posing for a camera like icons but instead very silently was indicative of what their party stood for and what they would like to do for the people….

What are we all coming to-what does it all come down to. Have we lost our value systems, have we lost the ability to think and be thoughtful? Have we become so greedy for power, name and fame that we forget our morals and what our culture and heritage is all about? Have all the religious people started taking their Gods for granted?

These are all just my thoughts and I am sure those who read this may differ in opinion but then again…I am only trying to think, to attempt to see that I do not become a vegetable-someone who leads his life with no thought and vision for his country and what surrounds him…

CAMARADERIE - my word for 2010

CAMARADERIE
The quality of affording easy familiarity and sociability

As every year passes by it is important we take cognizance of where we are at and introspect so as to gain wisdom from the past and become wiser as we press ahead in an effort to take ourselves to greater heights. As we grow and evolve, it becomes difficult to manage; balance and pan out what we began our journey with…camaraderie holds key to us being able to stand out from the rest. It is imperative that we join hands in this unified effort to imbibe and truly understand the responsibility all of us shoulder. We must extend the hand of ‘camaraderie’ that shall allow for those to follow to be shown the light in the tunnel and be nurtured into being mature individuals that go on to make their families proud.

LET US collectively take it upon ourselves to see that WE take the first step, WE make the first move to create for a comfort around us.

LET US extend the hand of camaraderie in an effort to see that we work towards truly what the meaning of the word means…let us see that we bridge that gap between each other so as to create fellowship and collectively work towards taking ourselves to the pinnacle of success.

Life always comes full circle…to receive camaraderie…you must give it selflessly.

LET US ALL work towards…enabling seamless communication for our world.

My world as on 9.45 AM on the 30th of July 2008!

Its been a long time since i last blogged-i think my last post was in the month of April this year. Work has kept me away and maybe the world and its balance did not require for me to be vocal. However, the recent turn of events and the agony i see around me leads me to feel i need to be vocal and express what goes through my little mind...its been a strange last month first with the entire government going ballistic in Parliment over the trust vote where you were almost given to wonder whether these people in there were really concerned about India and its people or whether it was just all about that 'seat', that position of power. It was embarassingly sad to hear the things some of the politicians who had lost the trust vote to Manmohan Singh had to say in press conferences. One politician voiced how it was because she was a Dalit that she could not come to power...i wish she had had the presence of mind to share with the world how she could have truly made a difference instead of being so petty. Whay are we this way? Why is power such a craving that most of us have truly forgotten why we chose to embark on the journey of being a politican.
Shift focus to the recent bomb scares that has the country in shambles trying to pick up the pieces of why this is happening and what do the politicians do-they try to gain political mileage by pointing fingers at each other. It takes a calamity for politicians to make ammendments and changes that should have been made ages ago...Look around you...do you feel safe....?
The Mujahideen actually believe that jihad is the way to a better life....that is not the way to go but in your own language to explain what is required is to be 'etihad' for a cause. United one can be able to create avenues for communication. We have spent decades fighting over land and over water and what is it for....to showcase how powerful we are??? It is not the amount of land one owns or possesses on the global map that defines us as being developed!!! It is the economy of the nation and its progress that highlights it's growth...when shall we understand this..?
My home town is Baroda and as i travel there this weekend from Bombay i do not feel safe for the first time in my life...i do not feel the level of easiness i have felt in the past which allows me to roam free in the city i was born...why does the Mujahideen want to take from me the one thing i have loved and thrived in which is the sanctity of peace and joy that my small city has always given me....

The Brilliance of Diversity

Imagine living in a world where every movie you see has the same story line. Imagine if the only choice of drink was water and the only flavor of ice cream was chocolate (okay maybe that one wouldn't be so bad!!). Imagine that every conversation with every person made the same point. And imagine that every day had the same ending and that every thought reflected the same idea. There's a point I'm getting to. Please stay with me...!

When i walk around at work to help inspire, develop and elevate employees so they play at world-class levels, I often see mission statements espousing a respect for diversity. "I value differences and cherish diversity." And, most of the companies I work with actually do. But here's my question: Do you?

Do you really get the brilliance of diversity? When you really think about it, it's the people who see the world through a different set of lenses that actually serve to stretch your thinking and provoke new understanding (and provoke they do). Sure they irritate you. They drive you crazy. Because they are not like you. But may I suggest that behind your irritation is the emotion of fear (big idea there). Not the terror on the darkness type of fear. It is More a fear of the unknown or a fear of having to leave the Safe Harbor of The Known (the worldview that you've had your whole life) and maybe see a new way of seeing things. No one likes to leave the shores of the home they know. It Always brings up fear. It is something that is extremely scary however for your ultimate growth-very essential. Never run away from what will help you grow and step into your greatness - no matter how uncomfortable it makes you feel (that's where courage and your natural bravery needs to be called into service).

Yup-diversity helps us in ways we cannot fathom. Makes us better people. Those different people with different perspectives and different skin colors and different languages can equip you with your MILs (Most Important Lessons). The people and experiences that are different offer you the gorgeous opportunity to rethink the assumptions and closely held opinions you have lived your life under. It takes a lot of courage to open your mind - as well as your heart - and listen to what they have to say to you. It is an uncomfortable dawning to sometimes realize that you might not be right. That the way you see the world (or whatever) just might be flawed in some way. Or that there may be a better way (of thinking or behaving or working or living). But unless you are willing to empty the cup that is full, no more can enter. And you just might miss out on your greatest possibilities and best of life...

Enchanting Bhutan!

Hola World,

I just got back from a wonderful holiday and i felt this immense necessity to share with the world what a beautiful time i had. The idea had been to take a time out and travel with my mother and 3 friends to an exotic location where we could all unwind from the hectic pace of our daily lives and something we all terribly needed!




The first choice had been Thailand but then torrential rainstorms hit there and so we decided to change destinations. Bhutan was decided and i must confess initially i was pretty pissed off. Their was a tinge of curiosity since i love Ladakh but i kept it to myself and continued to show i was miffed!!!

We flew out from Bombay to Calcutta and from their Paro (Bhutan) is a 55 minute flight. The Bhutan airport is n the Guiness Book for two reasons-the shortest runway and the smallest international airport. i was fine with the second but the first (shortest runway0 seemed to scare the crap out of me!) The flight was amazing, you see the himalayan range and fly past 'Kanchenjunga'. All you see is mountains and i could see no runway anywhere.
The approach to the runway is phenomenal, you start decending and before you know it you are flying through mountains making sharp lefts and rights and then as you make a right you see this short airstrip and wonder how this boeing is gonna land it. IT WAS A PERFECT SMOOTH LANDING!!!

Bhutan does not encourage tourism and you have to have it all worked out before you enter the country with prior permissions from the Government all arranged. Though it is a visa on entry, if you do not have the paper work ready they will very politely have you board back the same flight to India!!

We had finally landed and the first thing i was struck by was the architecture. Bhutan sets you back about 200 years in the way it is. Rooted to maintaining its rich heritage and tradition they are more than content to preserve the way they are today with no desire for modernisation of any kind.

We travelled through Bhutan starting off in Paro and then covering Thimpu, Punakha, Bumthang and Gangtey all by road. The road etiquette was a learning lesson for all indians and where ever we went we were greeted with warmth and affection. We had a wonderful Prado which was amazingly comfortable for the terrain and all in all must have driven a total of 3 and a half days to cover Bhutan.

We visited Dzongs and Monasteries and were treated to some exquisite food. One of my favorites was the Taktsang Monastery (an 8 hour climb!) in the mountains which is one of the holiest places for all Buddhists and Bhutanese. It is a place they must visit once in their life time. The Taktsang to Buddhists is like what the Mecca is to Islam. It was a mind blowing experience.

Bhutan is a must see for those who love nature and want to be in a country far away from the hustle and bustle of life. For peace go to the Gangtey Valley which visually looks like an 18 hole golf course set between two mountains. It is a famous place where the endangered Black Cranes come to rest. A MUST SEE....

There is so much to say but i shall end this article for now....

An important note for Indians when travelling to Bhutan:

Please carry a lot of cash with you. There are no ATMs in Bhutan and they do not accept Debit or Credit Cards. They also do not accept 500 or 1000 rupee notes. The currency equivalent is the same as that of the rupee.

The Musketeers Rock

Hola World,
Am in a great mood and feeling very very happy (sitting at work and its 8.00 PM)!!! One would wonder what makes me so happy well its my group that just rocks my life and i would be so incomplete without them.....Well who are these elite special people that can never ever be substituted....Ajay A.K.A Aju, Hitesh A.K.A Hi-Tech, Vaibhav A.K.A Dada and Chitra A.K.A Chits.

These are for me the bestest people in the whole world who i would love to take a holiday with, hang out with ,travel with and LOVE WORKING WITH.
What is very special about the friendship is that it ain't just a group that came together but one that found a zone within each other, a chord that was so unique. The specialness is that we are a group and yet at the same time share individual relationships with each other. We have seen each other's highs and lows and i have blind faith in them.

It is so amazing at this juncture in life to know that there are people that can give you so much pleasure and joy and you know will always stand by you. I love the feeling. We have worked very hard on each other and know that well when we are forty we shall still be chilling out and doing the things we do. (Dada would have got chutneyed by a cyclist by then!!!)

The world must wonder why i share this with you and why its on my blog but the reason i do so is because True friendships do exist out there and what is even more amazing is Friendship minus competition and egos is rare to find and we have as a group found it and i think it is pretty commendable.

So world don't give up and keep looking and you will find true friendships like we have and they will be an extension of your families.....

Love always Me.....

W3C Standards (An Important Read)

The World Wide Web Consortium (W3C) develops interoperable technologies (specifications, guidelines, software, and tools) to lead the Web to its full potential. W3C is a forum for information, commerce, communication, and collective understanding. You will find below URLS to the guidelines that need to be followed when working with the very same things.

I think it is important that in our free time we read up on this because it is extremely important and relevant to what we do as designers or developers and is slowly becoming a must to have to know when interacting with our international clientele. My buddy Hi-tech felt that its important i post this up on my blog when i shared it with him and so here it is...

Happy reading people!

http://www.w3.org/ On this page look up W3c A to Z on the bottom left corner.

http://web.uvic.ca/webcoor/guidelines/design.html this is self explanatory.

http://www.cabinetoffice.gov.uk/e-government/resources/handbook/html/2-4.asp self explanatory


Lots of love,
Meee...

Whats with the government???

You know life is such a piss off, you work your ass off to make the money and then a part of your hard earned cash is taken away because it is TAXED. Chalo i would imagine my money shall be put to good use but what does one see around us....politicians in a lexus suv470 (btw, that cost around 40 lakhs).

Look around you mumbaikars, show me one road that is perfect. Shanghai toh dur ki baat hai i have seen villages with better roads. And we have a government set up what the f*&#k are they doing???

First its road widening so ok, they dig the road up, they take months to ever get it back together again but when they finally do it up (which by the way is never a perfect job), a week later it is dug up again.....by whom....reliance (cable dalna hai na!). How about some organisation and coordination between departments people. It is our money after all that you are f^*king around with and WE DO NOT APPRECIATE IT. And guess what Mr.Politician its our votes that gave you your seat.

I am so sick and tired of suffering the drive to work everyday with bad roads. And i wish everyday that someone would just realise but then one day i see the dividers being painted and i am like 'oh wow may be i was wrong' but before the happiness sets in i hear the near by cab driver saying to his passenger, 'koi politician aah raha hai, rally hai'.

DO a lot of you feel this and share my thoughts......think about it.

Entertainment Tax

Hola people,
the city of mumbai continues to amaze me...have you all ever wondered why over thas few years mumbai is dying when it comes to being the showbiz mecca of India.

Well guess who is to blame?
The Entertainment Tax Department.

And if you thought that having the law in place and doing things by the book would cut you some slack-YOU ARE SO WRONG!

So how does it all work....
Lets say you wanna do a show and call xyz band to come and play at a concert you are organizing for 10000 people.
You price the tickets at 2500 rupees each.
SO the rule in place courtesy our wonderful government is you need to pay 25% of the ticket value + a10% security deposit on the price of every ticket you sell (unlike earlier where it was dealt with after the show was completed). So well if you don't sell 10000 tickets-your bad luck, you still need to pay a tax on all the tickets AND they in turn stamp every ticket.

Now you would think that this will allow for a successful event- YOU ARE SO WRONG!!!

Guess what even before the event starts, they will have their men come by your show-pot bellys that boast of corruption and try to create a racket by having you sign paperwork which binnds you to pay them more money. You are expected at this time to do the under table thingie (you know like the police who raid your party and say stop the music and u hush them away with a crate of fosters....you know what i mean?). The long and the short is they just never stop eating.

Honestly i mean it is so sad.....we are just so messed up. And then we wonder why no performers want to perform here.....YOU KNOW NOW......JAAGO INDIA JAAGO.

World AIDS Day

On World AIDS Day which was the 1st of December I wanted to share this visual with the world...

HOW BLIND ARE WE???

Its so strange the way we think, we look at life. I was reading the Mumbai Mirror today and was horrified to read page 14 - 'Delhi gets its own Akshardham'.

Here are the highlights of this little clipping.

Temple Talk

The 100-acre temple complex has been built at a cost of around 200 CRORES {I am amazed at our ignorance-don't know what i mean-look up our economy-our poverty-the homeless-NEED I SAY MORE}

The monument rises on 148 stone elephants depicting ancient tales from the Indian scriptures. {I AM SO IMPRESSED...WOW!}

The monument has a statue of Lord Swaminarayan, an 18th-century social reformer whose disciples formed the Swaminarayan sect. {HOW WILD IS THAT!}

The complex also has a 60-acre thematically landscaped garden, Bharat Upvan

An IMAX theatre will screen a 45-minute documentary titled 'Mystic India' {WHO ARE U FOOLING-MYSTIC INDIA???}

I am sure this will make the people you see in the images above really very happy and completely change their worlds.

This post has nothing to do with religion, what I do want people to see is the way we spend our money and what our priorities really are.

WAKE UP INDIA.

engagement....marriage...children....so easy!

Life really is never ending...and challenges never seize to stop perculating. Especially in India where everything is age and time bound. You have to be in a good job before u reach a marriageable age!! And when I think of the amount of break ups I see around me I think part of it is because of the way youngsters are pushed into getting married when they aren't quite prepared for what it entails...the question therefore is what does an engagement, a marriage really entail...? tough question...well to begin with I think one needs to be mentally prepared and well aware of what these relationships really mean.

You know one works very hard in life to find stability....that perfect balance and all that follows in life needs to fit into that very balance.

I see so many couples walk into engagements and marriages when they aren't even ready yet to be able to take care of themselves. Financial independance is extremely important, to be happy at work is very essential. You see when you plan to tie the knot you need to know that you have the ability to be able to 'provide' when required and to be able to nurture each other and grow minus the stress and anxiety that we see all around us.

The person you choose to live with should epitomize life and what it embodies....someone you can grow old with and still not ever shy away from, someone you want to build your world with....its a very special place. That somebody is meant to take on an importance that is even bigger than your own parents...someone you will always hold fort for....And believe me when you are ready....YOU JUST KNOW....I used to always wonder what it would feel like....When would I know.....And it comes with the confidence you get when you are independant, supporting yourself, fighting that battle of life in the big bad world called the 'INDUSTRY' and most importantly....WINNING THE BATTLE.

As I have stated in my earlier posts, it isn't just a process of doing, but a process of self learning where one has to teach one's own self how to not just adapt but really mould one's self to be able to create for a world that you can share yourself with. We are so caught up in our work, in our life, in our problems that we never have the time for the other.

A partner is an extension of your life, why then do we look at her with such bewilderment? This is because when you are not prepared you are not transparent, you do not have the ability to be transparent and that is extremely unfair to your partner.

One must plan one's life, every step of the way. the engagement, the marriage, the child, the lifestyle...it all requires planning. Never jump into the river if you cannot swim....you will drown.
Approach life with care and compassion not just for yourself but for those around you. Be selfless and have the ability to look at the larger picture called life. Be loving and compassionate to those around you fore you will yearn and wish you had when they are gone...

Till I blog again....

Wanna chuckle....READ THIS!

If you yelled for 8 years, 7 months and 6 days you would have produced enough sound energy to heat one cup of coffee.

(Hardly seems worth it.)

If you farted consistently for 6 years and 9 months, enough gas is produced to create the energy of an atomic bomb.

(Now that's more like it!)

The human heart creates enough pressure when it pumps out to the body to squirt blood 30 feet.

(Oh My God!)

A pig's orgasm lasts 30 minutes.

(In my next life, I want to be a pig.)

A cockroach will live nine days without its head before it starves to death.

(Creepy.)

(I'm still not over the pig.)

Banging your head against a wall uses 150 calories an hour.

(Do not try this at home. Maybe give it a shot at work.)

The male pray mantis cannot copulate while its head is attached to its body. The female initiates sex by ripping the male's head off.

("Honey, I'm home. What the....?!")

The flea can jump 350 times its body length. It's like a human jumping the length of a football field.

(30 minutes... lucky pig. can you imagine??)

The catfish has over 27,000 taste buds.

(What could be so tasty on the bottom of a pond?)

Some lions mate over 50 times a day.

(I still want to be a pig in my next life...quality over quantity)

Butterflies taste with their feet.

(Something I always wanted to know.)

The strongest muscle in the body is the tongue.

(Hmmmmmm........)

Right-handed people live, on average, nine years longer than left-handed people.

(If you're ambidextrous, do you split the difference?)

Elephants are the only animals that cannot jump.

(OK, so that would be a good thing....................)

A cat's urine glows under a black light.

(I wonder who was paid to figure that out?)

An ostrich's eye is bigger than its brain.

(I know some people like that.)

Starfish have no brains.

(I know some people like that too.)

Humans and dolphins are the only species that have sex for pleasure.

(What about that pig??)

Smiles always people....in my constant pursuit to have the best blog in the world.